Co-parenting after divorce doesn't have to be the most challenging thing that you've ever done. Instead, you can make it a peaceful arrangement that greatly benefits your children.
One way that you can do this is by making sure that your children are kept at the center of the co-parenting relationship. This can help them thrive because they might not be torn between two warring parents. It can also help you because you won't have to worry about balancing the needs of your children with your own wishes.
An important first step is to set up a parenting plan that is in the children's best interests. This includes setting up a schedule that puts the kids first. You have to think about how they will be able to spend time with both parents and continue to have time for their favorite activities. You also need to set up a child support plan or other financial agreement that will benefit them.
Your children need your support. This is a primary need for most children, but your support efforts might change with the divorce. You have to think about how you can help them to adjust to life with divorced parents. You should also be sure to encourage them to build meaningful relationships with other family members and trusted individuals.
Another important thing to do is to remain calm and peaceful when the kids are around. You and your ex might have some serious disagreements, but make sure you do this in person. Your children don't need any added stress on top of what they are already going through because of the divorce. If you have a comprehensive parenting plan that includes conflict resolution methods, you might fare better in your co-parenting relationship.